I have mixed feelings about 2018. It is hard to call a year good, when it stared out in the worst way. But it was all uphill after that, and 2018 brought a lot of great things.
We lost our dog Emmitt at the beginning of the year. The day I was taking down my Christmas tree. It was unexpected and the choice we had to make was the hardest decision of my life. I still shed so many tears over that dog, and I think I always will. He was my first dog in my adult life, our first dog as a couple. Hubs called him my soul mate, and sometimes got jealous of the affection he had for me. He was my baby, and I still miss him every day. I hope he knows how loved he still is.
We did our best to move forward, and I do believe it brought us closer together. We focused on ourselves for a while.
I corrected my vision. More than half of my life I lived with contacts and glasses, and fixed it in a 10 minute procedure. By far, one of the best decisions I have ever made. I remember hearing people say that, and thought they were being dramatic. But no, it is truly life changing. I can see the clock in the middle of the night. I can sit at the back of a crowded conference room and read the entire presentation. I go camping without having to worry about my contacts. I am so grateful we live in a world where Lasik is possible!
We got Rusty. We got him sooner than we were planning, but looking back, it was perfect timing. He was meant to be with us, and he has changed my world! I learned that raising a puppy is hard. He’s worth it, but boy there were days I was at my wits end! Rusty is so high energy and so different from Emmitt, I struggled a lot. But he is the sweetest, most loving boy, and he has captured my heart. I already worry about the day I will have to go through what we did with Emmitt again, but I hope and pray that day is way way in the future. Rusty’s breed are often called velcro dogs, because they are attached to your hip, but I often wonder if he is more attached to me, or me to him.
My whole family came to visit! My house was full with my parents and their dog, sister and brother in law, their 3 kids – plus Rusty was only 3 months. It was a crazy week, but we had a lot of fun! The girls are at the age where they can do so much, and have SO much personality doing it! Baby boy is walking and playing, and he loved Rusty! That boy will need a dog one day!
I started a new position at work and I absolutely love it. I really feel like I thrive in this role, and that is a great feeling! I never planned or expected to take this route, but it truly has been one of the best things for me! Exciting things are happening at work, and I am so looking forward to see what things will look like this time next year.
We went to Hawaii on a vacation of a lifetime! We went on a full week cruise seeing several islands, and an active volcano! It was truly a dream vacation, and I hope we get to do it again one day! I have always wanted to go to Hawaii, and it definitely exceeded all of my expectations!
Hubs started a new job too, and he is very excited about it. He is liking what he is doing and having fun doing it, so that makes me happy. He is looking for a career, and I think he might have found it! Work is still work, but he doesn’t dread it like he once did, so that’s better for both of us! It has been a little tricky for us, he has less flexibility now, but I know in the long run it will pay off! And thankfully my job allows for more flexibility, so for the most part it works out.
I have good memories of this year, great time with my husband and friends, experiencing so many firsts with Rusty. So many firsts without Emmitt.
I hope everyone has fond memories of 2018, and will make wonderful new memories in 2019! May 2019 be a great year for everyone!
